Nothing. A simple picture of the next step is optional.
What to Say
“Let us pause before we go.”
“What does your body need first?”
“Our first step is shoes. What comes after that?”
“One step at a time.”
What to Do
STEP 1 Pause and come close enough to gain attention without shouting across the room.
STEP 2 Name the transition in one sentence.
STEP 3 Choose one first step such as shoes coat or toilet.
STEP 4 Complete that step together or offer two acceptable choices.
STEP 5 Notice that the first step is finished and name the next one.
JOIN YOUR CHILD Prepare your own belongings and model one step at a time. Use fewer words and allow realistic time.
If Your Child Does Not Want to Participate
Check whether the child needs help more time or a different choice. Avoid adding many instructions at once.
Make It Your Own
• Use two pictures showing first and next.
• Let the child choose between two acceptable orders.
• Turn the steps into a quiet rhythm.
• Use the same short phrase for regular departures.
Your child may begin the first step more easily ask what comes next or become less overwhelmed by the whole sequence.
A GENTLE SAFETY REMINDER Do not use the pause when immediate evacuation or urgent safety action is required. Keep essential boundaries clear including car seats road safety and weather appropriate clothing.
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